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If you are shy and having a hard time with dating there are several dating tips for shy guys that can help you come out of your shell and date, while having a great time.

Being shy can actually be a good trait since you spend more time listening then talking, which most women enjoy. So if you are a shy guy, try using this to your advantage.

Being too quiet however can cost you dearly. Some woman think when a man is to quiet that they really aren’t interested in the things that they are saying. So you have to draw yourself a fine line there and make sure that you quiet enough to listen, but not to quite to care.

Making sure that start conversations is key, but also being able to help conversations along is also critical as well. Helping conversations along is not about talking, but just making sure you talk at the appropriate times. Awkward silence can kill a date so make sure that you help guide conversations along.

A great way to strike up a conversation and seem interesting is by keeping up with current events. One thing not to do though is strike a conversation about politics because political views should be important but not on your first date.

You should never talk about things you do not know about unless you inform your date of this and maybe she can teach you something. No one can be up to date on everything anyway.

Pushing yourself outside of your limits a bit is not a bad thing. Doing this sometimes can help you become less shy and more confident. However, there is a big difference between going outside of the box, and acting like someone your not. You have glaring hole being stared right through you when you do this.

Just because you’re shy doesn’t mean that you can’t date. Their just are some things that you should take into consideration when trying to date to help make your experience better.